gym

fuhh... After break gym for 5days, now im back again... You know wad happen after gym? My body totally ache... I dont even have the energy to go back home... Ofcoz in the end i reach home.
Thank God i didnt fell down when I go upstairs and My leg is like jelly... I think i push it too much for today. 3km in 20mins?? I think Im running too fast liao... Hahaha... But its gud because im so happy when i see myself on the mirror, my tummy is flat... no more agreement. Now it became 6city... And tomorrow i will do it again because it brings alot of fun... ofcourse, if got mei mei.... the speed can hit till 13!! Show them how strong I am... Thats my little story about gym... It is fun if you bring it with a good mindset....
Btw i miss my gym partner he is missing for few days liao. We r seperate because of test. Hope when i see him, he will become like muscle man...

Regards,
Dino

Wondering....

During sleeping time, I will always wondering... is it really worth it? hmm...
if you thinking is he talking about relationship? yes.... you are in the right track!!

sometimes,the intention is just want to show cares, but how come in the end it people thinks that I'm busybody.... well maybe sometimes I'm abit kepo (haha).... but it is for your own good.
(maybe) "people changes" they don't like if we step into their life. but wad if they do the wrong things, as a friend we should remind them...  that's what friends are for, right??

For me personally, I don't really like to care for others.... I prefer give them cash and pretend that I have solves their problem. but as I step outside my comfort zone, challenges comes.... people think that I'm Kepolah, this la, that lah.... maybe life without challenges is like Mcd without chilly sauce (don't asked me why I'm using Mcd).... but if you think back, is money can bring joyfullness? well... to be frank, I'm lucky that my family is quite rich... but it also shown that with money we are not able to bring happiness to the family.... my dad always says that people will never had enough... Believe me... when you are rich, you will treasure friends more than money!!

ok back to relationship topic... *side track till soo far!!
I think that I will not focus on those who are not in track with me for these moment... It's not that I don't want to know them better, but it would be better if I do so... I will not hurt them and I'm happy also + I got extra time to do other stuff...

I hope they read this blog and repent :p

Regards,
Dino

20 Hal Sepele Yang Membuat Wanita Merasa Disayang

Berikut ini John Gray, Ph.D, memaparkannya lewat bukunya Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.

1. Setibanya di rumah, carilah dia terlebih dahulu sebelum melakukan hal-hal lain, dan peluklah dia.

2. Ajukan pertanyaan-pertanyaan khusus mengenai hari-harinya, yang menunjukkan kesadaran mengenai apa yang ingin dilakukannya (misalnya, “Bagaimana janji konsultasimu dengan dokter itu?”).

3. Berlatihlah mendengarkan dan mengajukan pertanyaan.

4. Tahan godaan untuk menyelesaikan masalah-masalahnya. Sebaliknya, ikutlah merasakan.

5. Berilah dia perhatian penuh selama 20 menit (jangan membaca Koran atau memperlihatkan hal lain selama waktu tersebut).

6. Bawakan dia bunga-bunga potong sebagai kejutan maupun pada kesempatan-kesempatan istimewa.

7. Rencanakanlah kencan beberapa hari sebelumnya, jangan menunggu sampal malam Sabtu dan bertanya padanya apa yang ingin dilakukannya.

8. Kalau ia biasanya menyiapkan makan malam atau tiba gilirannya. Dan tampaknya ia lelah atau sangat sibuk, tawarkanlah untuk menyiapkan makan malam.

9. Pujilah dia atas penampilannya.

10. Hargai perasaan-perasaannya jika ia marah.

11. Tawarkan bantuan padanya bila ia kelelahan.

12. Jadwalkanlah tambahan waktu saat berpergian agar ia tidak perlu tergesa-gesa.

13. Kalau Anda akan pulang terlambat, teleponlah dia dan beritahukan padanya.

14. Jika ia minta dukungan, katakana ya atau tidak tanpa membuatnya merasa bersalah karena meminta dukungan itu.

15. Jika perasaannya terluka, tunjukkan simpati Anda dan katakana padanya “Aku menyesal kau tersinggung.” Kemudian diamlah; biarkan ia merasakan bahwa Anda memahami rasa sakit hatinya. Jangan menawarkan pemecahan atau penjelasan mengapa luka hatinya bukan merupakan kesalahan Anda.

16. Jika Anda merasa harus menarik diri, beritahukanlah padanya bahwa Anda akan kembali. Atau bahwa Anda perlu waktu untuk merenungkan segalanya.

17. Kalau Anda sudah tenang dan muncuk kembali, bicarakanlah apa yang merisaukan Anda dengan penuh rasa hormat. Bukan dengan cara menyalahkannya. Agar ia tidak membayangkan yang terburuk.

18. Tawarkanlah untuk membuat api di musim dingin.

19. Bila ia bicara dengan Anda, taruhlah surat kabar atau matikanlah televisi dan berilah dia perhatian Anda sepenuhnya.

20. Kalau ia biasanya mencuci piring, sesekali tawarkanlah bantuan. Terutama bila ia kelelahan hari itu.

semoga dapat membantu anda

a little thought of investment.... new building

Talking about investment, we always thinking something that will cost alot of money...example: property, shares, gold or jewelry (for some people). If you realise when you invest in something, you will monitor it for  (especially shares). is that true??

Well, today I'm not going to talk about how to invest or where to invest, but rather I will talk about people behavior in investment...!! I believe all of us are super excited when we have our 1st investment. For me, I invest my money on forex, for 2 weeks, without fail I will monitor my investment and make sure I will not lose money... Ofcourse that is the best moment in my life, where I win alot of money... 2 weeks later, I'm getting lazier and lazier... In the end I don't even care about it...

Well this is our generation problem, where we are easily get bored. We love challanges but in the short period... for long period? you can give it to elderly people...!! is that true?? *you decide

For me the challanges right now is Building Fund..... well for me money is not the main problem, the problem is whether I have the heart to take care of the building and make sure everything is being done correctly... well some people might think that I'm busybody (Ke Po). lets back to the first sentence again, if you invest in something, will you monitor on it? if not? then wad is the purpose of it? Don't you think that Church is belong to us? if you not monitor it, who will take care of it? church staff? Pastor? or Contractor?? *you decide

now let see our newest progress....

Taadaaa.....

It is a magnificent building which cost us more than 8digit MYR.... so is it costly? Yes. is it worthed to be monitor/take care? Definitely.... so why don't you spend some times to go and look around.... I'm saying that you need to go there everyday and spend time for 8hours/day to make sure your investment work properly... What I really want is your heart to look around and see the progress... who knows when people will ask your investment. if you don't even know about it then what is people perspective about you??

Well I'm not talking about new building only.... just like people says what you eat determine who you are? (hopefully its the right word), if you don't care about your investment, what will people think about you? think for awhile.... I know I love do something in short period, but not everything can be done in short period right? so why don't we learn from small things like looking at our new building, or go to church and see around... there is no wrong in looking church wad? Well people always says this... aiya no need to kepo lar... they are all professional already, we believe in them... yeah right...!! if they are professional we need to monitor more!! why? because we knows that no one is perfect in this world (except Jesus), and they are soo busy till they forgot somethings. so it would be great if you come and look around... atleast they will be more focus on their work and more energetic...

*lets back to topic.... 

Just like I said before, our new building is being built by smart people... so it would be a great step to start our investment style... you don't need to give command... all you can do is to see and learn what you can get from it... easy and you get alot of experience....

Well I believe that learning is a process... so why don't we take this opportunity to start our studies in investment... it might take some courage to go there... but the result will be greater than what you are expected. believe me

Regards,

Dino

Introduction

fiuh.... after 10years of waiting... atlast I created blog... haha... this is the place where i will share my testimony + some little secret =) ofcoz if you know me, it would be hard for you to get a secret from me coz im a very interesting (read: secretive) person... o'right that the introduction for me.... will write other stuff in on other time :)

cya...

Dino